Over these 5 months I have learned tons about myself as a person and what real love looks like. I know that 5 months is definitely not a long time and I am by no means close to being a relationship expert, but I still have a list of things that I think a lot more people should know. These don't necessarily have to apply to romantic relationships either.
1. Bad moods aren't worth it.
• I still get in bad moods all the time, but I'm starting to realize that no matter how annoyed I am at Bryce or anyone/anything else, it only takes away from my relationships with others when I'm grouchy or selfish.
2. Your phone is not the most important thing.
• I know everyone hears this all the time, but it is incredibly true. Whenever I put my phone away, conversation quality with anyone goes up at least 100%. Ok, maybe I'm exaggerating, but you get it. ;)
3. If you're not with someone you feel comfortable enough to laugh at yourself with, then what's the point?
• Self-explanatory.
4. Finding someone who completely supports your dreams is one of the best feelings in the world.
• Maybe this isn't advice or a lesson, but I found this out during these 5 months. It's a wonderful thing.
5. Always be with someone who loves Jesus as much, or more than you do.
• Anyone who doesn't love Jesus really shouldn't be an option for a romantic relationship, if you're a Christian. I've learned that having someone to pray with, worship with, and share what God is doing in your life with should be a huge, central part of your relationship.
I love my boyfriend, and being with him has taught me a lot of things. I've learned how to be more unconditional and intentional with my love, and I think that's a really important thing. Thank you so much for reading!
-Michelle
*Disclaimer: I wasn't making this post to try and brag about being in a relationship or anything (I know people get offended sometimes). I just wanted to share some things I've been thinking about.
I am nearly crying about this.
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